Empowering Financial Domination

Today, I want to dive into a topic that often sparks curiosity and controversy: Financial Domination, or FinDom. This fetish revolves around the submissive finding pleasure in surrendering money or financial control to their Dominant. It’s a dance of trust, surrender, and the intoxicating exchange of power.

For those unfamiliar with the dynamic, FinDom can appear predatory or exploitative. And, like any kink or fetish pursued without mutual respect and communication, it absolutely can be. However, great Financial Dominants prioritize one crucial rule: never pushing a submissive to financial ruin. (Hint: As with all kinds of play, that doesn’t mean We aren’t going to say We will! That’s half of the fun!)

My Introduction to FinDom

I remember my first foray into money as a fetish. Already experienced in sex work, I encountered a man on a dating app who was aroused by the idea of giving me money. The dynamic was electrifying: he delighted in providing, and I reveled in receiving.

We would meet in public, where he’d slip me crisp bills. If I deemed his offering sufficient, I’d reward him—briefly and teasingly, leaving him unsatisfied yet craving more.

Now, I play with control and power exchange in a multitude of ways as a Dominatrix. It feels only natural that my fetish for money has followed, but it has evolved.

FinDom as a Tool for Growth

The amount of control that I have over a submissive is not only a turn-on; it’s a responsibility. Just as I love utilizing BDSM to help people embody their strength and confidence, explore what they’ve repressed, and accept themselves on a deeper level, FinDom can transform the way submissives relate to money, encouraging healthier financial habits. 

While Sadomasochism can help someone release tension, experience true release, and work through trauma, FinDom can revolutionize the way my submissives relate to their finances, fostering a healthier, more sustainable approach to money. (It helps that I have an accounting degree.) 

Building a Healthy Relationship with Money

Money is often a source of stress, but through FinDom, I guide my submissives to reframe their relationship with it. If you spend recklessly and can’t pay tribute, you’re not taking care of your Dominant.

My goal is to help submissives see their bank accounts as tools for service, fostering financial wellness alongside devotion. Together, we create budgets, savings plans, and financial goals. This ensures they can consistently spoil me while working toward their own financial independence.

For instance, I often require my submissives to open a high-yield savings account (HYSA) from which they can send tributes. This practice reinforces financial discipline while maintaining a sustainable balance between their desires and obligations.

The Thrill and Responsibility of Financial Control

When I take control of a submissive’s finances, it’s a collaborative effort. We discuss their goals, priorities, and the amount they can realistically tribute. This is larger than indulging Me the way I deserve; it’s about creating a structure that allows for devotion without compromising their well-being.

While the thrill of spoiling their Goddexx is undeniable—and I love receiving notifications of their tributes—balance is key. Clear boundaries ensure our dynamic remains exhilarating, empowering, and sustainable.

At its core, FinDom is a fetish meant to be fun and thrilling. I will own your finances. I will control your spending. I will be your first priority. And that requires your continued ability to serve. All that I require to start is your first tribute, and it better be good.